She was predeceased by husband James F. Cole, beloved sister Lena Winesanker and brother Murray Greenbloom.
Toby leaves her daughter Wendy (husband Jim), son Jeffrey (wife Claudette), step-children Monica, Jamie, Laurie and Brian and 6 grandchildren who adored their Bubie - Dara, Lauren, Toby, Daniel, Rose and Joel.
Toby will be remembered by her friends and family as a generous, charming, loving, elegant woman.
She was an engaged listener and many people were fortunate to receive guidance or a sympathetic ear from her. She had a fulfilling career as a psychologist and took great joy and pride in her family.
The family plans a private burial. We will have a "party" to celebrate her.
Donations in her honour, if desired, to West Toronto Keys to Inclusion, a charitable organization run by Toby's friend and committed to helping adults with intellectual disabilities reach their full potential (http://westtorontokeys.com).