SZUHAI, Steve (Istvan) Szuhai -
DECEMBER 10, 1936 – JANUARY 8, 2024
Sunday night at his home in Whitby ON, Steves heart stopped while sleeping in his favourite chair.
He left us on his own terms, albeit a little sooner than expected, but peacefully and painlessly.
Steve (Istvan) was born in Hungary in 1936, where he overcame unspeakable hardships and eventually escaped to Canada during the Hungarian revolution.
Arriving alone and with nothing, he was accepted by Canada where the University of Winnipeg opened their doors to refugees of the Hungarian revolution in 1956.
He worked hard to teach himself English, did small jobs for extra money and worked summers as a cook for CN Rail. Eventually he made his way to Toronto where nothing could stop him, focused on improving his situation, eventually had his own business married Gail Helen, a beautiful woman that they shared 3 children with. Renee, Stephen, and Jennifer.
He was a hard worker and perpetual student, always taking classes to improve himself and taking on additional odd jobs to provide for his family. Going to classes part time he gained a Bachelor of honours degree in his 60’s. He was an equally gifted teacher and mentor, especially when numbers were involved.
Steve was committed whole heartedly to his grandchildren Zachary, Emma and Aidan and would take every opportunity to support them in all their endeavours providing his love, time, guidance and of course the occasional discipline. Steve never imagined he would ever see his homeland, Hungarian family, or childhood friends again.
When the iron curtain fell all that changed and after decades was able to reunite with loved ones, introduce them to his Canadian family and enjoy the laughter of his relatives mocking his bad Hungarian accent. Coming back to his roots was one of the most joyous times of his life, and his Hungarian became much better.
From our European family he is survived by 3 remaining siblings, their children, grand children, and we are still counting all of the cousins.
Steve had a dedicated commitment and love for God.
He clearly understood and appreciated the divine guidance and many miracles it took to guide his path.
His knowledge and respect for his spiritual growth was consistent and determined.
This has been reflected in the kindness and generosity he has always been willing to share with others, whether family, friends, or someone he didn’t know but was in need.
His huge heart is now at rest. Love you Poppa, enjoy this exciting new journey.
Celebrations of life will be held in both Whitby Canada and Budapest Hungary, dates to be announced.
His childhood years of suffering through wartime cruelties reflects his choice of charities.
In lieu of flowers donations can be sent to Covenant House in Toronto helping needy children on the streets. https://covenanthousetoronto.ca/ .
Arrangements with OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME .
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